Thursday, April 9, 2009

You will not believe this....

But, this is the way my "luck" has been...
So, a couple weeks back, we went to pick out a head stone for L.D. (another post) While we were there, the guy told us that we needed to contact the guy in charge of our cemetery to see what kind of head stone we could get. (I guess some cemetery's have restrictions on sizes??) Anyway, we found out that there are no restrictions, however, the sites that we picked out and paid for, were someone Else's!!?? No, no one is buried there, but there is a head stone there and is facing our plots. I thought that they would go the opposite from where we were, but found out that the headstones go at the head of the plot, which is usually facing the west. We had bought 4 original plots, so either D. or I could be on either side of L.D, or one of us could be buried w/ him. Now, neither option can work. We can't be on both sides of him, now that we have new neighbors, just one side, and we can't be buried with him, as his head stone will be at the head of where he is at, there for leaving no room for a double headstone for D. and I. The guy apologized to us, bur really, what could / can we do? We can't ask someone to move their headstone, and I AM NOT moving L.D. I think that we have been through enough for now... Seriously, I don't know how much more I can take.... ??!??!!!?!?!


~Sarah~

1 comment:

Mary said...

That is awful. I am so sorry. Maybe they should have had restrictions. Its already painful enough. They should consider the person who would be on the other side.