I just thought I'd pass on to everyone a blog that I found. I started following it to see what the men are going through so I could help Dale more. (He is not into computers / blogging like I am.) Anyway, the blog is http://fathersgrievinginfantloss.blogspot.com/. (I do not know how to link to another blog, so I just copied / pasted it, I hope it works. ) I hope that there is some helpful info in here for anyone that could use it or pass on to our hubbies, or whoever.